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Oh, and I did #75 last night. Because I'm an idiot.
I'm going through the process now of losing weight again- after getting really fat about 6 years ago I got my act together and lost 50 pounds. A couple of months ago I realized I had gained back 61 pounds! And I swore I would never get fat again after the first time...
Jogging is easier when you have good shoes.
I'll add that jogging (or any activity for that matter) is easier with less weight to carry (or bounce) around.
Mike
That's amazing that you've lost 100 pounds. Most people don't have the heart to stick with it like you have.
My favorite is #59. Most people don't know the rule about meat the size of your palm as being a proportion. Splurging seems like the American way to eat, so most keep truckin' ahead like that!
@Mike: yeah, good jogging shoes go hand in hand with "not dragging around an excess 20 pounds while running." I've had a bad running summer and I badly need to get back into race shape, not just jogging shape - which is bad timing considering winter's coming and I'm not the greatest cold weather runner.
Mike
gum is good but they contain artificial sweeteners also. so you have to be careful and chew in moderation.
@sfordinarygirl: Yeah, I debated gum, but there are a few that don't contain artificial sweeteners. You have to look long and hard, but there are some. Orbit has xylitol as a sweetener, and while I'll confess some ignorance about long-term effects of xylitol it is natural: Xylitol is a naturally occurring sweetener found in the fibers of many fruits and vegetables, including various berries, corn husks, oats, and mushrooms. It can be extracted from corn fiber, birch, raspberries, plums, and corn.
I just found that when I had really bad cravings it was better to chew some gum than eat, despite the junk in gum. But you're right, if you're trying to avoid sweeteners gum is probably a bad idea. Ricola, too. But I figured it was trace amounts if I only chewed a couple a day.
I found this page via StumbleUpon, and it gripped my attention immediately. It was like reading my own thoughts!
I am a formerly morbidly obese man, who is down 90 pounds thanks to the wonders of the magic dieting plan called moving more and eating less.
I admit I kind of scanned the #'s once I realized that there were 100 of them... so this might have been covered, but I want to encourage any and all people who want to lose weight with 3 points:
1. The author's 1st point is 100% accurate. You will only lose weight when you reach a point of decision that you want to be fit. Addicts call this moment, "Touching bottom." It's the moment of clarity where you admit that you have a problem. Have this moment. It will free you. You are your problem. Don't blame McDonald's, Osama Bin-Ladin, George Bush, or your mom's fat side of the family from Alabama.
It's your fault. I say that with all compassion, because my parents taught me terribly about food. It was still my fault.
2. Exercise becomes fun, fast. I began my new life at age 29. Up until this point, I had never run a full quarter of a mile. I weighed 318.5 pounds. I now weigh 226 pounds, which I know is still too high, but I am 6'2 and large framed, but later today I am genuinely looking forward to running six miles.
No, really.
I used to distract myself with my iPod when I ran, which I heartily recommend to newbies, but after just a short time, you find yourself deriving pleasure from exercise. It really doesn't take that long. The human body is an astonishing mechanism. Yes you, your fat, tired body is a machine waiting to be unleashed. I am a professional songwriter, and when I run, I get all my good lyrics. My mind is clear, focused, and my senses are heightened. I promise you, I swear to you, that the pain of weight loss is far outstripped by the pleasure (also see Michael's point #94). :)
I wrote this song on a run... sorry for shameless self promotion.
http://tinyurl.com/39of5d
3. Your taste buds change. I don't care if you believe in God or Mother Nature or whatever, but we were created / evolved to be extraordinary. You can change your taste buds. Isn't that a miracle?
Occasionally, if I'm feeling self indulgent, I will go get a Double Western Bacon Cheeseburger from Carl's Jr. I used to eat 3-4 of these a week. Every time I do this, I'm struck with the reality that it doesn't taste good to me anymore. After I eat it, it sits in my stomach, and my body protests for hours.
When my body cries out for food, I crave.... salad. I truly crave it. I love how it crunches. I love the texture and variety of the tastes. I love how I feel after I eat one. BTW, all of the advice about salad and dressing is spot on. That ranch dressing is not your friend.
Granted, it's taken me 18 months to get here, but what's 18 months compared to your whole life? Think back 18 months. Not that long, right? Were you fat back then? Are you fat now? What if you were fat now, but you looked back on the greatest year and a half of your life by the spring of 2009?
Meh... too much talk. Sorry. I get excited about this.
THERE'S A NEW LIFE FOR YOU OUT THERE!!!! GO GET IT! :)
I went to Weight Watchers alone. I made a friend my second week there, and now I am motivated to keep going. It helps keep me accountable having a bad week, well I still have to go. It's just a scale.
I wonder is it harder to do this with an unsupportive spouse? My spouse is one who never gains weight and so he doesn't get the struggles. I can't even convince him to give up soda. He says it doesn't hurt you. NOTHING I say or beg to will convince him.
He even mentions how much soda he drank growing up, everyday all day from like 2 or 3 years old and look at how thin and fit he still is.
@Chad: That's a fantastic story - truly inspirational!
@Guinness416: the theory is simply that since your body starts "starving" overnight and goes after carbs, then fat, if you haven't added carbs to your system 'recently' there is a better chance it will burn through to fat. It's a very, very minor difference, granted, but I think there's SOME validity to it. Add to that the fact that most carbs are just heavier and harder to digest and it could simply mean a better digestive experience.
@Livingalmostlarge: the main success of Weight Watchers is the public accountability. You have to declare your success or failure in front of others, and it's motivating. It is terribly, terribly difficult to do with an unsupportive spouse. It is hard to quit something that bothers you but doesn't bother your spouse. If I dance around eating chocolate in front of my wife, it bothers her - if she eats a pizza while I eat a fruit salad it's tough. Having support is critical beyond belief when losing weight. I don't know your personal situation well enough to offer much advice, but I will say that negative influences are negative influences, no matter what their source, and negative influences are incompatible with support and love. Try to lean heavily on WW if that's helping you. It's helped a LOT of people.
Good comments everyone, and if this list helps ANYONE with ANYTHING I'll be happy. Email me if you have other questions, or leave more comments!
*Scrolls up to read*
I've been in a weight loss group on Yahoo. It's slow, but I had lost about 15 pounds at the beginning of the year (currently pregnant, so weight loss on hold for now), and the things that helped me were: the JUST ONE rule -- if you are used to eating your oatmeal porridge with two pieces of toast, try having just one piece of toast. You may end up satisfied instead of stuffed. Or if you are having a snack, fine, but JUST ONE. Do not make anything FORBIDDEN, or you will immediately obsess about it. If I say I can never go to McDonald's again, I then spend the next three days thinking about it until I can find an excuse to get to town and go, at which point I order EVERYTHING that I am never going to be able to have again. Ug. If I tell myself I can go, but not right now, then I am fine without it. Also, I started walking on a treadmill, and after only a month, I was adding in a minute of jogging here and there, and I didn't even hate it. That was probably the biggest shock. Another thing that helps, I think, is making a point of drinking lots of water. Not that I think water is magical or anything, but if I am drinking my water, I simply have less time/inclination to drink other calorie filled beverages. The big thing our group has found is to use MODERATION, and to go in baby steps.
Good luck to everyone!
chelsea aka mcdonald's addict
Being a couch potato the "eat less, exercise more" always gets to me...luckily!
I just... find it excruciatingly difficult to stick with it. If it's not people telling me it's unhealthy then it's my little girl's dad bringing crap over he knows I shouldn't eat. And I place way too much of my responsibility in other people's hands. That said, I also believe in taking something of a hacker's approach to life--instead of working against innate tendencies, working with them. In that vein, you don't bring a dieter's favorite off-limits foods into their home, and you don't try to advise them against a particular diet plan if you have not read up on it (directly from the source) yourself. That kind of thing.
As for my own responsibility and motivation I am still trying to figure that one out, because I sure do need to lose 100 pounds. Unlike a previous commenter, being fat is not my natural state and I still am not used to it. It's got to go.
So far, I am mostly trying to help those struggling and not figuring out that they have not really yet made the commitment to lose weight. Trying to get your finances in order AND trying to lose weight in the same year - as two separate goals - can't be done well. However, this year - having lost the weight last year - my financial goal has pieces to it that says that I am not going to waste the money spent on weight loss last year by "losing" what I had "gained" by gaining weight again (that would be a bad financial decision).
Many of the same tactics I have read on blogs for finance and blogs for writing that are related to goals all seem to reference the ones for "dieting" - I look at this more as a lifestyle change, which is what you have described. I also did Atkins, and still keep carbs low, while modifying what I eat with more heart-healthy foods related to what is important for my own body, while still choosing tasty foods. I also now teach zumba - an excellent combo of cardio and fitness (standing crunches, squats, while in cardio), and still measure my water by 32 oz bottles. No day is perfect because I don't have to live so stringently now - my body gives me clues as to what is good and what is "off" and feeling good is the best reward!
I am going to link this article/blog to mine so that it opens up other thoughts for readers of mine - many of the comments here are really good and motivating as well. I think support groups are a great way to connect with others. I can vouch for e*diets groups, but it sounds like the yahoo group may be just as good for support, and perhaps more affordable. Using the blogs may be another way that someone can find comfort in community and kindred spirits when the urge strikes to eat as a solution to a non-hungry problem.
Thanks for posting about your experiences and sharing your pics!
Diane
Just had to go take another look- has anyone ever told you that you now look like Anthony Edwards, only cuter?
Thanks so much, you made my day :)
new research has show that milk actually helps people lose weight. obviously you're not a doctor and just listing what worked for you but hopefully people follow that advice too closely
Just a thought.
Congratulations on your success, though. You look great.
"Never eat more than you can lift."
Miss Piggy
But, I do have to agree: running is a good thing. Something you didn't mention (or maybe I missed it) is that running may also help fight off heart problems. It's hard to run, though, if you have asthma.
You've reminded me to keep a watch on my carbs, and keep up with my veggie/fruit intake, thank you! You are a great inspiration! <3
As a lone dieter in a sea of overweight fast-fooders, I feel awkward sharing my knowledge, and silently berating co-workers who get Doritos out of the vending machines every day. Knowledge about successful weight loss has been amazing for me, but it leaves me depressed that the rest of the world doesn't know what they're doing to themselves.
I'm proud of you for your weight loss (you look absolutely incredibly, and extremely handsome!), and for beefing up your knowledge, it makes me not feel so alone!
I'm currently 235 pounds and looking to loose about 50 pounds by xmas. I'm hoping that with your 101 thoughts and exercise I'll be able to achieve that.
Thanks again,
Insanity540
And you sure both pics are yours? If so, that's a real motivator for those looking to lose weight. Good job there! It's all about hard work!
Now that I work in a diferent area, with diferent schedulles it is much harder to keep the weight off.
I was in an internship in a nice office where I had to mantain computers, and now I'm a cashier at a local supermarket. The really odd schedulles kill your dieting plans. So much so that I've almost gained all of the weight I had lost.
Not a lot of time for the bathroom, so got to kill the water intake... :(
I've always cringed at exercise and I tell myself the same thing every time.
I'll gain a lot of my dorment muscle again.
If you've ever been a weight-lifter and gotten into shape ONLY because of that.
It'll take about 2 years with the right set... You'll look great, but if you're already 6 feet tall; AND you're buff... It won't be great to visit your local clothing store.
Most people that don't want to loose pounds with exercise and snack all the time. Even as a meal! I'm guilty of that...
Water is going to be your all time snack.
After exercise of any kind... Drink water and do not eat food! Wait!
To loose stomach, or gut if you want to call it. It's actually easy...
Use chi kung breathing exercises or any martial arts breathing exercises.
Compressing your stomach muscles while you breath for any portion of time will make a diference. The lower abdominal area nearest to your legs is the hardest and most rewarding, because it'll almost never be fat again. You might get fat and flab will drop and cover it, but no past that point.
This exercise you have to picture... Really tall pillow, and must be hard enough to keep your upper body raised off the floor.
Put your chest on it, hands beneath your face. Watch TV or something....
Just lie down with your upper body raised enough to stretch your entire stomach.
That is it! Your own body weight will generally make you use your stomach to breath instead of your chest. The stretching will make you use the lower abdominal muscles even more. Just depends on how high that pillow is.
I mean really high! You should feel like you could easilly keep something the size of your own head under your stomach. Just watch out for your back.
My weight loss had only a few musts.
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Drink only water.
No sweets, or bread (only rarely for both)
Less of every food.
Avoid sauces.
Almost no meat. (Make the amount of meat on your plate look ridiculous)
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All cravings should first be tackled with water. Just keep it around...
PS.: Sorry for the huge comment.. =)
Sandy
So happy that there's someone out there who doesn't just dismiss it out of hand. Pat your self on the back!
Some good authors to read: Gary Taubes, Dana Carpender, Mike Eades
And you are absolutely correct about only you can make the decision to loose weight, it has to be from desire, and necessity to properly motivate you.
It seems that you have had a hard time loosing that weight by reading your list.
This is because you did not eat a balanced diet consisting of lean protein, complex carbohydrates, and good fats.
You say that working a 9 to 5 job caused problems eating six times a day was annoying.
You don’t have to eat equally proportioned meals, all you have to do is eat fruits, vegetables, nuts, and they are simple and quick.
Its not about making you feel less hungry its about keeping your insulin levels balanced so you don’t crave food.
Never ever drink soda its toxic, if you need something sweet try a teaspoon of raw honey instead.
And if you truly want to keep that weight off you need to do weight bearing exercises to build lean muscle.
Lean muscle burns body fat 24 hours a day!
# Drinking green tea and herbal teas is good for you, and it keeps you feeling full.
LMAO
Also... milk has been PROVEN to help people lose weight. Several other things on your list were either questionable or blatantly ridiculous.
With that said, there ARE some good tips on here.
Spry chewing gum is my best friend.
As always, the list is simply my thoughts. I don't claim to be an expert - these were simply my own thoughts on my own weight loss experience.
I had a couple of smirks and laughs going through your thoughts as they made me realize that my journey appearently wasn't that different than it is for other dieters.
Anyway, thanks for the great post; it'll go directly to my permanent DIET-collection... along with that framed before-after picture set :-)
Take care!
Christian
(Germany)
It isn't the amount of carbs that's the problem, it's the type. I like this list, but I'd amend it to state that refined, "white" carbs such as refined sugars, white bread, white rice, and regular pasta are bad, while up to 50% of one's food may be derived from whole, unrefined carbs such as brown rice, pulses, whole grain anything, and fruit.
Everyone should do what works for them. Carb avoidance worked for me. I still ate a healthy, normal caloric intake (lots of meat, cheese and leafy greens) but simply avoided carbs. Low-carb doesn't work for my wife, for example - she seems to do better on low-fat. I do very well on low-carb. Different people are different - that's why everyone should consult with a physician or dietician or other professional before doing a serious weight loss program (....I did).
Yes, 50% of the world's diet now may be carbs, but prehistoric man was mostly eating proteins and foraged fruits and nuts. There was no wheat. There were no potatoes. Carbs are not what we are biologically meant to eat. There's nothing in the least weird about keeping carbohydrates at the bottom of the food triangle.
But that having been said, the post is "my thoughts" and nothing more, as I say repeatedly throughout the post.... worked for me and nothing more.
And to #10 I stopped eating chips and when I put one in my mouth after a few months of going without the oily texture tasted pretty bad.
These are all very good thoughts. Thanks for sharing them.
I can't disagree more with that one.
The other bits of advice are generally good but I stay away from soy as much as I do from corn syrup and deep fried starchy foods. I've lost a hundred pounds myself by staying away from most carbs and eating sensibly and I have kept it off for over a year now.
I count soy as a carb and like most beans it is essentially poisonous until cooked. Cooked it still contains trace amounts of ricin. No thanks. I'll pass.