Sometimes you just have to go for it. I was that way, lost my job in NY and decided to just get a job in DC and try something else out for a bit. Just plan it out and go for it.
Retired Syd
· 9 months ago
I am really identifying with your last few posts--so much of what you are going through is exactly the same as the transition into retirement. So many choices. It really is overwhelming. Everyone lusts after freedom, but no one realizes how overwhelming freedom can be.
If I were in your shoes, I would be thinking about this: After a long day of writing (or going to work at a more traditional venue), you get home, pack up the kids and take the family for a beautiful walk on the beach each night. Maybe you bring a picnic dinner. No TV, no distractions, just the sheer joy of hanging out with the family, listening to the waves, enjoying the longer days.
If I were in your shoes it would make me very happy just to be thinking of taking them off and waling in the sand.
bubelah
· 9 months ago
RS, wow! I love the way you think ;o) You described what we dream our life would be. Thank you for support. It's a tough decision since my whole family is staying in NY.
Retired Syd
· 9 months ago
That does make it tougher, for sure.
I have some friends that moved to Singapore and lived a life exactly as I described above (only it was one kid and one big dog). I used to look at the pictures they posted with such longing. They loved the slower pace of life. Eventually they moved back, but they really are glad they did it.
Funny about Money
· 9 months ago
What an amazing opportunity!
Hey, Arizona's not so distant...and IMHO the weather's better than Florida's! ;-)
But speaking of distant, have you thought of throwing over the traces and sojourning overseas for a while? Say...the south of France? Costa Rica? Australia or New Zealand? Carpe diem!
Gregory Elfrink
· 9 months ago
Steve,
More than ever I hope you take this opportunity to go where you want to go, and more importantly need to go.
In my short life span and business career, the one thing I've learned most is the importance of freedom. Never let go of that. Never feel bogged down.
I wish you the best of luck, and of success, somehow I know you will never need to hear that though my friend. You have built your skills and so now, you are truly independent. For an economy may slash companies and take away peoples identities(Their jobs) it can never do it to you. Because you took the time to get the skills such as writing, auditing and what have you, that are truly mobile in nature. Wherever you go, the skill goes with you.
Again, wish you the best my friend. And we will have to hang. I am planning on making 50g in my multi-level marketing company this year. Made 600 in last two days, so that was pretty sweet. Going buy a motorhome and go traveling again, this time in style!
All the best to you!
Jeremy
· 9 months ago
Hi Steve,
I'd say that if your wife is 100% with you than you should go for it. I am considering a similar move. Good luck whatever you decide!
Cheers, Jeremy
Sony
· 9 months ago
This is a lovely post. Thank you. I often find myself afraid of my own freedom too.
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If I were in your shoes, I would be thinking about this: After a long day of writing (or going to work at a more traditional venue), you get home, pack up the kids and take the family for a beautiful walk on the beach each night. Maybe you bring a picnic dinner. No TV, no distractions, just the sheer joy of hanging out with the family, listening to the waves, enjoying the longer days.
If I were in your shoes it would make me very happy just to be thinking of taking them off and waling in the sand.
I have some friends that moved to Singapore and lived a life exactly as I described above (only it was one kid and one big dog). I used to look at the pictures they posted with such longing. They loved the slower pace of life. Eventually they moved back, but they really are glad they did it.
Hey, Arizona's not so distant...and IMHO the weather's better than Florida's! ;-)
But speaking of distant, have you thought of throwing over the traces and sojourning overseas for a while? Say...the south of France? Costa Rica? Australia or New Zealand? Carpe diem!
More than ever I hope you take this opportunity to go where you want to go, and more importantly need to go.
In my short life span and business career, the one thing I've learned most is the importance of freedom. Never let go of that. Never feel bogged down.
I wish you the best of luck, and of success, somehow I know you will never need to hear that though my friend. You have built your skills and so now, you are truly independent. For an economy may slash companies and take away peoples identities(Their jobs) it can never do it to you. Because you took the time to get the skills such as writing, auditing and what have you, that are truly mobile in nature. Wherever you go, the skill goes with you.
Again, wish you the best my friend. And we will have to hang. I am planning on making 50g in my multi-level marketing company this year. Made 600 in last two days, so that was pretty sweet. Going buy a motorhome and go traveling again, this time in style!
All the best to you!
I'd say that if your wife is 100% with you than you should go for it. I am considering a similar move. Good luck whatever you decide!
Cheers,
Jeremy