DISQUS

Writer's Coin · 1 year ago

That's a good way to put it. It's like death, once you accept its inevitability, it's easier to deal with. So I hear, anyway.

remodelingthislife · 1 year ago

Another great post in this series. I just have to say I really enjoy another blogger who loves throwing in little football tidbits here and there :)

Always an entertaining and informative read, thanks!

Hunter Nuttall · 1 year ago

At my first job, I thought I would be there forever. I made it four years before getting laid off from that struggling telecom company in 2002. Since then my stays have been much shorter, and I've come to expect that. Now I don't even bother mentally unpacking at a new job.

Steve (Brip Blap) · 1 year ago

Thanks Emily! I'll do my best to keep up with the football tidbits even though we're in the long dark offseason now... :(

Steve (Brip Blap) · 1 year ago

Hunter, I thought the same thing at my first job - I think everyone does. I hardly even personalize my workspace these days!

Ruth · 1 year ago

On the contrary, when I pack up to go to a new office, I put all my personal stuff in a separate box and unpack that first. From the first day in a new space, I have my favorite coffee cup, my personalized mouse pad, a calendar I made with favorite pictures, etc. Much of our life is spent in our work space, so I want my space to be just that: MY space!

Steve (Brip Blap) · 1 year ago

@Writer's Coin: That's certainly a grim way to look at it, but it makes sense...

t h rive · 1 year ago

I agree - very much agree that old work friends should be kept, especially in thinking that someday I'd like to open my own business.

I'm like Ruth: and like to get comfy in the workplace. In fact, in a few months part of our office will be leaving and I'll be gaining a larger workplace. I'm stoked. I'm going to buy a few more plants, a comfy chair, a foot rest, and have a 'reading area' with my desk space.

p.s - i like your job jumper posts. Eventually they'll let me know it's okay, and I can make it work for me if/when it comes to leaving. Keep up the good work.

Curmudgeon · 1 year ago

I keep little if anything personal in my office. It's a place to sit while you're renting yourself out to an employer. You don't put a photo on the tray table of your airline seat, do you? And when you do get up to leave, you never, ever burn bridges. It's a much smaller world than it appears.

t h rive · 1 year ago

maybe I do put a photo on the tray table when I fly, what's the big deal? I don't see why one can't become personally connected to the place where you may spend up to 8 hrs a day. I may live in an apartment for just a year, but I sure as hell dress it up even if I spend up to half my hours there just sleeping.

You're so callous. *smirk.

Steve (Brip Blap) · 1 year ago

@t h rive: I don't know - I don't personalize my car, my workspace - anything, really, except my home. It's actually a good question about human personalities - why does one person personalize and the next doesn't. I bet Curmudgeon and I are a lot more similar in our approach to work than Ruth or you, at least from a "nesting" perspective. I actually don't think either approach has an advantage - basically you should do what makes you happy. I have just never been one to have pictures and personal knicknacks everywhere. I have my coffee cup, some tea, a fork and a spoon and a single picture of my son and nothing else. Part of that is due to the fact that I'm a consultant and I move around a lot, but part of it is just due to my personality. My home is my fortress of personality. Everything else - like Curmudgeon says - is a place where I rent my time to The Man to enhance my home life.

(Says something about how much I like my work, eh?)

t h rive · 1 year ago

Nah, I shouldn't say I disagree with any other personalization (or non-personalization I guess) - to each their own. It surely has a lot to do with the fact that I'm a young keener, and still stoked on my first office job.

ALso, I don't do knick knacks etc. I mainly do plants, and a printed picture or two.

bubelah · 1 year ago

A lot of people I know have been laid off or fired and they were escorted out of the building within 15 minutes (that is in financial industry, don't know about others). So, if you have a lot of stuff that you keep in your office or cubicle, it may take you a day just to go through all of it and pack it up. But you don't have a whole day. 15 min, you are out!

I liked to personalize my workplace, but not too much. I, for example, put some postcards of the places I traveled to remind of the good times and to help me meditate and relax during the day.