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From bookstatistics.com:
58% of the US adult population never reads another book after high school.
42% of college graduates never read another book.
80% of US families did not buy or read a book last year.
70% of US adults have not been in a bookstore in the last five years. ... Continue reading »
58% of the US adult population never reads another book after high school.
42% of college graduates never read another book.
80% of US families did not buy or read a book last year.
70% of US adults have not been in a bookstore in the last five years. ... Continue reading »
10 months ago
I think college was important for me. I grew up in a household that afforded me few social skills and no world view. Half of the men in my high school graduating class went to work in the local steel mill, as their fathers did. College was a way out, and it was a way to begin growing a world view. I'm not sure I had it in my to do that on my own.
I enjoyed the post. Thank you.
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But there is a very specific culture in a company town, too (even today; try the Walmart HQ). You can't grow intellectually very much unless you can break out of that and live other cultures.
10 months ago
I don't get how reading a book is immature, although I do think that reading a newspaper is also fun, and of course blogs are great. Don't these people crave a longer, more detailed piece of writing to get their teeth into?
I also can't imagine not being curious about the world. Guess I'm a born/made reader and that's not likely to change.
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We've become something of a society that is proud of it's ignorance. We don't need no books, we're "keeping it real!" As Chris Rock said "Real ignorant!"
Maybe it has something to do with the school system? It's so driven by standardized tests that the joy of learning and imagination are driven out of a child. When they finally finish school they don't want to associate with anything that may seem scholarly.
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In any case, I don't know if people who don't read lack intellectual curiosity. I think there can be other ways to satisfy that need (my mother is experiential, for example). But I do think they lack an ability to think in the abstract and the potential. It would be interesting to see the MBTI results for readers and nonreaders.
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Mind you, my husband L has never read for fun (English isn't is first language so he gets frustrated) but he seems an order of magnitude more curious than his well-read missus. He just prefers the interview approach and the experience approach to the read about it approach.
There are other stats I've seen published recently in Irish media (although I think they're american) which show that women read in free time much, much more than men for most age groups. That's pretty consistent with my experience.
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When I read the part in your post about having your parents read the hobbit to you, and the lord of the rings trilogy - it mirrored my own experience. My mom and dad would read to me from those books (along with C.S. Lewis Narnia series) just about every night. I remember being giddy with anticipation waiting to hear the next chapter. I can only hope to have that same experience with my future children.
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Narnia's a great series, too (CS Lewis was a brilliant guy, AND wrote some great fiction).
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I, too, have early memories of reading The Hobbit, LoTR, Narnia and the Oz books.
My wife and I are both avid readers, with extremely eclectic tastes, though I prefer SF and Fantasy above all. We read to our children all through their early years, and they both had good reading skills in school, but neither of them reads for pleasure now that they are adults, unfortunately. I think there's just too much competition for their attention that doesn't require a lot of imagination to visualize characters, scenery, etc.
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(I grew up without television; my parents didn't have one. Trips to the library were AWESOME.)
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I work for one of those big computer companies (I won't say which one) and only ever see 2-3 people out of the several thousand that I work with ever crack a book. I grew up thinking people read, but now I see that only a very small percentage read with any regularity and if my corporate microcosm bears any semblance to the society it exists within, almost nobody reads.
Yesterday a guy came by my cube to make fun of the fact I was reading. he made the joke that he thought it was funny that I would sit around all these computers an read antiquated books. He made an effort to look at me as if there was something wrong with me.
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At the age of 22, and having finished a graduate degree and other certification classes, I still long to read and satisfy my intellectual curiosity. I always ask, "What about if this happens?" "What about if I do this?" So I turn to the library and read about topic.
I've started reading since I was 2, and I have never looked back. Reading is a great passion of mine, and it is evidenced by the hundreds of books that I own and have read. Funny, how I can't remember a scene of a movie, but I can remember a chapter of a book. I've given up television during college to focus on my major ingredient to increase intellectual capabilities: reading.
It's good that you started your children early in loving books. Although my parents never read a book to me or with me, they have provided me with books all throughout my life.
I am saddened by the facts that you have given. People should read.
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I think people don't read because of TV, no time. And I think you have to read so many bad books in college (I sure did) that is sort of ruins reading. I didn't read a book for a couple years after college.
I'm not sure if reading to your children helps or not, can't hurt. My parents didn't read to me and I have been a voracious reader since I learned to read. DH's mom read books to him and he didn't used to like to read (he's getting into it now that we cancelled our cable and don't have TV).
10 months ago
Like some of the commenters in this thread, I don't think there is any one reason for these statistics, but a combination of many factors. Many school systems do primarily teach standardized tests, which destroys the creativity and passion for learning. And many people prefer to be fed by the TV for hours every night.
But I also think that at some point in many people's lives, books became associated with the dread of an upcoming assignment or a test someone wasn't prepared for and people forgot about the magic that books contain.
Personally, I would rather read a book than watch the latest Reality TV show or sitcom. A well-written book makes you part of the story, whereas TV requires little thought and less emotion.
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